About 60% of individuals with dementia are prone to wandering, which can be dangerous if not addressed properly. XTRAKARE has shared practical advice and strategies to help caregivers recognize when additional help is needed to ensure the safety of their loved ones and to prevent burnout. Below are some insights and tips from experienced caregivers.
1. Nighttime Wandering Requires Extra Support
If wandering happens nightly, it’s impossible to attend to a senior every single time without compromising your own rest. At this point, 24-hour supervision becomes essential. Options like overnight in-home care or a memory care facility can ensure safety and provide relief for caregivers.
2. Technology Can Be a Temporary Solution
When my dad began wandering at night, my mom moved to a separate room for rest. She used a motion detector in his room to alert her if he wandered. While this allowed her to redirect him and get some rest, the situation became unmanageable when he started getting up 6–12 times a night. Hiring a nighttime caregiver gave her the support she needed to stay healthy.
3. Don’t Do It Alone
Be realistic about your limits. If you’re unsure about your loved one’s behavior when unsupervised, don’t leave them alone—it only takes one tragic incident. Look for support through daycare centers, church groups, or professional in-home caregivers to give you a break.
4. Secure the Home
All dementia patients are unique, but if you’re keeping your loved one at home, you’ll need to secure the house and provide continuous supervision. A neighbor of mine tragically lost her mother when she wandered out of an unlocked door, fell in the street, and passed away. If you cannot guarantee their safety at home, a locked memory care facility may be the best option.
5. Consult a Doctor for Guidance
If wandering and sundowning become frequent, consult your loved one’s doctor. They can help determine whether a secure memory care unit in an assisted living facility (ALF) is appropriate. Memory care units are designed for individuals with dementia and provide specialized care. Research facilities thoroughly, including ratings and reviews, before making a decision. While these facilities can be costly, they often provide a safer and more structured environment than home care.
Caring for someone with dementia is a challenging journey that requires patience, preparation, and support. Recognizing the signs of wandering and acting early can help keep your loved one safe while ensuring you maintain your well-being. Whether it’s hiring a caregiver, utilizing technology, or transitioning to a memory care facility, finding the right solution is key to navigating this phase of caregiving.